Sunday, 29 April 2012

Reshmi working as an independent high class escort in Bangalore Girl Friend Experience







Reshmi Known as one of the top new faces in Bangalore,Reshmi is a successful escort on a boundless ascent. Entrancingly beautiful, charismatic and chic,Reshmi has an exceptionally warm personality and soothing nature. With her physical appeal, sophisticated style and grace Reshmi invites you to delve into the true pleasures of life…

There is huge double standard when discussing whether me being inside the escort Business is free choice. I will take their word that it is empowering, and only view the small moment where the woman appears happy, and well she is smiling. But, we do not take the word of the battered woman or lady being raped by her boyfriend – that she is happy, is still in love with him and so is it ok then. But I decide being inside the escort Business must be freely chosen. There is a massive betrayal of all women and girls inside and outside the escort Business – and it makes me bloody angry.”

My Confessions and diagnosis is not an attempt to seek approval or sympathy for the decisions I have made along the way, nor is it a means to glamorize or promote escort or my concern in any way. Rather, it is to be a true account of my experiences and the new challenges I or we escorts at Bangalore Girl Friend Experience now find our self facing. I am sure that some of the people who read our official site Bangalore Girl Friend Experience will be able to identify with my experiences. For those of you who can't, I am hoping to create insight into the world of escorts and how it can become a whole way of life rather than just a job. For the purpose of my own anonymity and the privacy of others, the names of the people have been changed, and of coarse you do not expect my real name to be Reshmi

You can buy me,
You can hire my love!
A price tag you'll find.
My smile for you,
Never reaches my eyes.
Your touch leaves no imprint,
Whether cruel or kind.
You can access my body,
But never reach my mind.
You may be renting my mouth,
Doesn't earn you my kiss.
You hear my farewell,
My only gift,
The realization
You are simply dismissed.
Of coarse till you pay next.

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Name: Reshmi

Age: 29

Meeting place: Any where in Bangalore

What you want me to wear: I prefer a jean and a Top.

What you want me to do: Girl Friend for the day


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I am 29 now and have been working as an independent high class escort since I was 22 with Bangalore Girl Friend Experience. I started working in Bangalore Girl Friend Experience because at the time I had my boy friend with whom I was having sex with hours and hours for 4 times a week with him. Hours each time. He was great in bed but it made me think that I really enjoy it and made me think of why I am giving it away for free when I can make a lot of money for just doing what I am already doing.

Lol that guy turned out to be my bf for the next 3 yrs I was working and I had to keep it a secret which was very hard at times. I first started with Bangalore Girl Friend  Experience as an independent high class escort.

I don’t know much else to say except that non-prostitutes do not understand our world. they almost have this extremely bad view on escorting, I had worked with non-escort friends who I have  talked with all of them have the view of escorts need to be saved view and that they hate what they do and are forcing themselves to be in that industry because they don’t have an education etc but this is further than the truth. I have met so many talented and smart women. A lot are studying or have
semi-good normal jobs. E.g. one working friend of mine works in a call Center in White fields and gets paid INR 25,000/ per month. If she works full time however she is only working part time and part time working as an escort in my concern Bangalore Girl Friend Experience. I am as for myself a self confessed nerd. loll went to college in my native Mysore to do economics. I did it for 1 year and dropped out. Lol I hate the view that prostitutes need to be saved from their life because I enjoy
what I do. Most of my clients/regulars want a girlfriend experience so they would book me for hours and it’s not all about sex. Most of that time is talking, watching TV, having a drink in Brigade Road and cuddling and just lying next to each other cuddling in bed. Some even pay me to sleep with them and I mean literally sleep. Lol


I am getting paid for something I enjoy and I am very good at what I do and I get paid a lot for it. Hey I might be having a 3 hour nap with someone but not many people can wake up from a 3 hour nap and say ive made INR 15,000 from that nap. LOL

I wanted to share my story and how and why I joined this concern 7 years back because I am hoping to meet other escorts from Bangalore city. I know many escorts in Bangalore as I work in the # 1 escorting concern in Bangalore city. I am looking to find some contacts with other working escort girls in Bangalore to share experiences with and to just chat and compare experiences and be friends so if anyone wants to ,please just send me a message at sanjay.manager2010@gmail.com

Another dangerous myth promoted by the privileged sex workers is that escorting is not the buying and selling of bodies for sexual wants – but just a sexual service where the body is separated from the mind.

Well, of course the mind is cut off – but not from pleasure or to make it into an ordinary job – the mind is cut off because the violence and degradation of escorts is so normal and made standard, that detachment is the only way to survive with a small degree of sanity.

These clients do not see or care that the escort is a full human – all they want is the body parts that they can masturbate into.God, most of these men would not notice or give a shit if the escorts were dead or alive, as long they get their money worth.

I say that most women who are lucky enough to be in this escort trade, often need their pride and self-respect as much as they need oxygen. To lay bare too much emotion to please others, is a destruction of that pride.

Know the reality of the Escort business – is to survive being inside that hell, the escort woman or girl has to learn to have no emotions, or to play the emotions that are demanded from her.

To be a good escort, good at massage, good phone-order bride and so many other sex trade roles – you must learn the coded emotions that mean you may survive.

The major emotions to know and learn are to smile, the calming emotions to please men, the ignorance of disgust, the emotions of the willing hostess-slave.

Surviving the escort trade is just luck, but a major way to have the chance to survive is to murder all emotions – and play the role of the perfect actress.

That is something that is impossible for the majority of exited women to speak about – hell, it nearly impossible for most to know in their own minds and hearts.

It is hard to express how to survive you did the lowest, the things that sickened every cell of your body – you did what clients demanded.

How can words or writing truly express that desperate need to survive that nearly kills all that was human in you.

All you do is find some peace for what you had to be – and know you did the most amazing act possible – you exited that hell.

Is it any wonder that exited women appear tough and unemotional?

For me, they are all the greatest heroes I know of. I don’t need to see any emotions to believe that.
I guess if I wasn't an independent high class escort in here at my concern Bangalore Girl Friend Experience, I’d be the **** most guys dream about. I just enjoy sex and all the power that it gives us women. Most men will do or give us almost anything to get between our legs. I could never let my Clients know how bad I need it or the pricewould drop.

Unfortunately, about a month ago my dad found out what I was doing here in Bangalore. I'm not sure who told him, I think my sister might have let it slip out. He hated me being an Escort anyway and this just made it worse, he was very angry and called me all sorts of nasty names. So I stopped doing it for a while but now I've decided that I'm not going to take orders from my dad any more, I'm not his little girl and I'm determined to do what I want, he can take it or leave it!  Anyway, I know that
when he gets angry with me he always comes round in the end, it was the same when I became an escort. And it's hard to resist when they tempt me with money. Anyway, if I didn’t do it for them they would easily find another escort girl. I'm sure some people will be shocked just like my dad but I think an escort should do what their clients want, don't you? After all they pay good money and I like to make sure they enjoy the experience. Love to know what you think, do you approve of what I do,
or perhaps you think I'm just too dirty?

I am an independent high class escort in Bangalore. I have been since I was 22 I got caught in this lifestyle, for the obvious reason...Quick money. There are days I wake up and want to kill myself and be done with this life. I can't keep a stable job because I love Quick money and that's been my biggest downfall. I have been raped and I couldn't even tell because then I would have to tell on myself. I have been treated like a sex object, rather than a person for too long, I can't take it, but when I think of the Quick money I am back on the bandwagon. This lifestyle has ruined my relationship with my bf,my family, and friends. Sometimes I don’t feel like myself when I do it, I feel more like a robot going through the motion. I don’t do drugs, or alcohol,but yet I want to live this life as an independent high class escort in Bangalore and I don’t understand myself. I am an Escort, but no one knows. I lead a double life, and do what I have to get by.I work in the hope of a better future. People think I am spoilt and lucky, and so put me down. They think I have an easy life, but they don't know what I have to do to earnmy money.

I have to take care of myself, no one can ever know how. But as long as they don't know, they will never understand us.

I just don't have the money for my life style in Bangalore so I had been contemplating escorting! I have slowly been trying to adjust my mindset into the profession of escorting in Bangalore!!!.

Hi I am a working girl(escorting in my concern Bangalore Girl Friend Experience) I have been doing it for almost 7 year and I was just wondering if any other women out there feel like they find themselves painting all men with the same brush. I feel like I can’t trust any man in Bangalore city any more. I do enjoy my job and I am very good at it, but when I get back to reality and non work life I find myself wondering will I find a guy that I can trust?... if I could do it. I am a 29 year's old  woman but when I oll myself up I don't look half bad. I enjoy giving blow jobs, hand jobs. I figure I
do everything and I am up front about it I won't have to worry about the angry Clients
that think they've been duped. I figure why not get paid to do something I do like?

Because sex is pleasurable, it isn't surprising that there are people who try to make money with it. People who sell themselves to other people for sex are called escorts.

Other terms used for these people are harlot,whore, call girl, courtesan and prostitutes. While most escorts are selling sex for money, some escorts use sex to gain favors.

Clients at Bangalore Girl Friend Experience may preserve discretion, and our escort’s lips may keep knowledge. For the lips of an escort drip honey, and her mouth is smoother than oil; but in the end she is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword. Her feet go down to death, her steps lay hold of hell. Lest you ponder her path of life as an escort and her life - her ways are unstable; you still do
not know them.

A woman who is selling herself for sexual pleasures looks good to a man . After all, it would be hard to attract clients if she were not attractive. However, no matter how pretty she is on the outside, she is still full of sin within. Her good looks and pretty words will destroy a man's soul. Devil is the master of deception, dressing up evil things in attractive packages.

An escort will ruin a man's honor. How many husbands have been brought low when his wife found out that he had frequented the services of an escort? Even a one night stand could ruin your reputation for life if your family found out.

We escorts will meet husbands, you'll live on and men who'll live on you, and those are the only men you'll meet.... and we escorts will always be every man's wife-in-law, and no man's wife.

Visiting an escort is also costly, an escort like me better knows that once you start to lust after my body, you will pay just about any price to have me in bed again.

Instead of waiting until it is too late and wishing you never had visited an escort, you
would be much better off never going to one. An Escort only brings short-lived pleasure, but she will leave you with an eternity of pain. Don't continually think about seeing an escort ,this will be ultimately being an opening to tempt you into sin. If you frequently think about sinning, it becomes easier to imagine yourself committing the sin. One day you will give in and do it.

To keep you from the evil woman, from the flattering tongue of a seductress. Do not lust after her beauty in your heart, nor let her allure you with her eyelids. For by means of an escort a man is reduced to a crust of bread; and an adulteress will prey upon his precious family life.

People do not despise a thief if he steals to satisfy himself when he is starving. Yet when he is found, he must restore sevenfold; he may have to give up all the substance of his house. Whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks understanding; Husbands who does so destroys his own soul, Wounds and dishonor he will get, and his reproach will not be wiped away. For jealousy is a Wife's fury; therefore she will not spare in the day of vengeance. She will not accept any recommendation, nor will she be compromised though you may give her as many gifts.

The adulteress or an escort plays with your emotions - wearing down your defenses.She makes herself attractive and whispers sweet things to you. An escort will do anything she can to arouse the desire for sex within you - inflaming that desire into a passionate lust for her body.

Don't give in to her temptations! The best defense against the lure of an escort is a strong, solid life dedication to your family life.

An escort does not necessarily hang out a sign saying "Sex for Sale"; nor does she always wait for some man to come and offer her money to spend the night with her.The escorts will be on the street looking for an easy target. A young man, inexperienced with the ways of the world and easily inflamed with the desire for sex is a prime target. Most escorts will take a bold approach and make blatant sexual passes at you. They will move up close, making sure you see areas of flesh that should be covered. They will press against you, touch you in provocative ways, and tease you with words - anything to arouse your desire for sex. Escorts understand that a man battling his own desires will not think clearly.

Nowhere is a woman treated according to the merit of her work, but rather as a sex. It is therefore almost inevitable that she should pay for her right to exist, to keep a position in whatever line, with sex favors. Thus it is merely a question of degree whether she sells herself to one man, in or out of marriage, or too many men!... the economic and social inferiority of woman is responsible for prostitution.

Love is a taste for escorting. In fact, there is no noble pleasure that cannot be reduced to escorting.

There will be all sorts of reasons given to convince the hesitant why joining her in bed for just a little while is all right.

Escorts are appealing to your pride. She wants you to think that she believes you to be someone special. However, she gives the same line to every man she meets.

            "It will be fun."

That may be true for the moment, but a short night of pleasure is not worth the potential humiliation, pain and agony that you could face later.

            "No one will know."

We very much doubt that you could truly keep it a secret. Even if you manage to keep it a secret the first time, what about the second, third, and fourth time? What do I mean by second time? Once a person believes they have gotten away with a sin, it is very easy to convince themselves that they could do it one more time with no harm. After the second time it will be easy to try it just one more time. Soon, theperson can't stop. They don't want to stop.

Therefore, with many different enticements, the escorts will lead her victim to bed.His passions will be so inflamed that he will not even realize, nor care that he has been seduced until the next day when it is too late.

There is a special allurement to breaking a law. Escorts are exciting because of the danger involved. It is similar to knowing a secret that no one else knows. It makes you feel as if you are better than other people. What it is doing is feeding your pride. Giving in to an escorts’ temptation is like entering a deep, narrow pit. The pit is easy to fall into, but very hard to work your way back out. It is easy to follow the escorts’

lead. It is not hard to have sex with her in bed. Most men would find it very pleasurable. I ‘am sure you could find many excuses to visit her repeatedly and even justify the expense to yourself. Some people do wake up to reality and manage to work themselves out of the pit, but it is a long, hard struggle. In the end, and for your own sweet family sake, don't go near the pit!

Remember that having sex outside of marriage, whether it is with professional escorts or not, is not just a sin against your family; it is a sin against your own body.

There is a specific purpose for sex and that purpose is fulfilled in marriage.
When a married man is having sex with an escorts, to the moralist prostitution does not consist so much in the fact that the woman sells her body, but rather that he sells it out of wedlock.

What is marriage but prostitution to one man instead of many?

Marriage is for woman the commonest mode of livelihood, and the total amount of undesired sex endured by Married women is probably greater in marriage than in escorting.

Prostitutes are accused even by feminists of selling their bodies; but escorts don't sell their bodies, they rent their bodies. Housewives sell their bodies when they get married.

There are 10,000 escorts in Bangalore alone and what are they, if not bloody sacrifices on the altar of monogamy?

Escorts exist today because women are objectified sexually, and because it is considered more permissible for men than for women to have purely sexual experiences.

If nobody wants to sell sex, it is a crime to force anyone to do so. But when men or women do want to sell their bodies, they should have that full right without encountering punishment or discrimination. If the client behaves decently, the relationship between the sex buyer and the sex seller must be considered a purely private transaction.

The escort is not, as feminists claim, the victim of men, but rather their conqueror, an outlaw, who controls the sexual channels between nature and culture. A society's response to prostitution goes to the core of how it chooses between the rights of some persons and the protection of others.

Now here is a woman treated according to the merit of her work, but rather as a sex.
It is therefore almost inevitable that she should pay for her right to exist, to keep a position in whatever line, with sex favors. Thus it is merely a question of degree whether she sells herself to one man, in or out of marriage, or too many men!... The economic and social inferiority of woman is responsible for prostitution.

"Actually, if my business was legitimate in  India, I would deduct a substantial percentage for depreciation for my body."

Tobacco kills 52,000 people a year in India from lung cancer, and there's no telling how many lives have been ruined through drinking. But to my knowledge, no one has ever died of a blow job.

Monday, 16 January 2012

Nayanthara work as a independent high class escort and a core team lead at Bangalore Girl Friend Experience.


Nayanthara work as a independent high class escort and a core team lead at Bangalore Girl Friend Experience.

Professional Bangalore model with a spunky personality and warm nature. Nayanthara has modeled for high end MNC Products, Nayanthara frequents Mumbai and Delhi regularly for her commitments in Modeling career, her demanding modeling career allows for limited availability, so please inquire in advance with the concerned in this website for her availability. Beautiful, personable and lady Nayanthara is of paramount choice when seeking beauty and charm for a sophisticated Bangalore girl friend experience

First and Foremost: I work as a core team lead at Bangalore Girl Friend Experience. A fast-paced, roller-coaster story of Nayanthara an independent high class Bangalore escort a young woman's struggling with herself, and her self-image and her addictions.Escorting is the supreme triumph of Business man.... Worst of all, Escorting reinforces all the old dumb clichés about women's sexuality; that lady escorts are not built to enjoy sex and are little more than walking masturbation aids, things to be DONE TO, things so sensually null and void that they have to be paid to indulge in fornication, that women can be had, bought, as often as not sold from one man to another. When the sex war is won escorts should be shot as collaborators for their terrible betrayal of all women, for the moral tarring and feathering they give indigenous women who have had the bad luck to live in what they make their humping ground.It's not easy to write about Escorting in a totally honest way because it is painful. And an independent high class escort I am embarrassed to talk about my pain, about the times I have been hurt. Especially when the road there was tricky and circuitous and partially of my own design. Finding herself in a cycle of prostitution and unable to break free, Nayanthara turns to be an independent high class escort in an attempt to secure some Financial stability. From this dark emotional pit, Nayanthara starts her painful journey back to 'wellness' and attempts to rid herself of her addictions of the fast lifestyle in Bangalore for good.

Nayanthara Confessions is a graphic tale of how life as an independent high class escort really is and what can happen when we search for happiness outside of ourselves. It is a poignant reminder that things can always get better, as long as we remember that when it's time to leave the party, it's time.I love escorting in this Bangalore City. You get exactly what you want, every time.Nayanthara may look innocent on the outside but it doesn't take long for her to prove she is truly a gorgeous independent high class escort with Bangalore Girl Friend Experience. I am Living in Bangalore and been here for a few years working in the unpredictable and mysterious world of the sex industry. You can call it what you want..Whore ,escorting, call girl, lady of the night, or prostitute… that’s my occupation and wants to share my life and stories in my Official Site Bangalore Girl Friend Experience.

I am a 25 year's old girl who grew up in Tirupathy in Andhra Pradesh . Right now I live in Jaya Nagar Bangalore. Want to know the funny part? I don't want to do it for money, because I have low self esteem, I want to do it because I'm curious. Because I love men, sex and my body. I love to travel, meet new people. I'm a social butterfly with wicked conversation skills. I'm crazy about romance and seduction. And my job as an independent high class escort in Bangalore Girl Friend Experience is deliciously exciting and fun.I have been an independent high class escort in Bangalore Girl Friend Experience over the years and ,very quiet and discrete, having my own horror stories. We all do. I appreciate my Official Site Bangalore Girl Friend Experience that openly discusses this sex trade. So it always surprises me that people are so shocked at its existence. And women still are marked with that scarlet letter. My own analogy, Married women, girlfriends, all do exactly what we do, the difference they add emotion ,and one person. All women whether consciously or not use their sexuality to get things they want and to keep him happy. It’s a survival mode ,to use it in industry instead of marriage. Kudos to my Concern Bangalore Girl Friend Experience to tell all for shedding light on this, without making it look all glamorous.

The escorting Business - a strange profession that occupies an ambiguous little area in our culture. What exactly is an escort? What kind of services do they offer?

People ask so many questions about Escorting. You did that? You're kidding, right? What's it really like? What kinds of people use the service of an independent high class escort? What kinds of girls work for Bangalore Girl Friend Experience? Men, especially, are utterly fascinated by the subject. It's like getting a glimpse into some mysterious semi-forbidden world, a world caricatured by pornography and attacked by to many in the Society and speculated about by just about everybody in Bangalore. Men get vicarious sexual frisson thinking about it. Women wonder what it would be like to have someone pay -- and pay well -- for something they routinely give away. And, inescapably, people look at me and get a little scared. I could be -- I am -- one of them. I am their sister, their neighbor, their girlfriend. I'm nobody's idea of what an independent high class escort looks like. Maybe that's why I'm scary. They want independent high class escort to be different, identifiable. That keeps them safe. The reality, of course, is that usually we're not. Oh, the girls on the streets in MG Road at night, yeah, with them, you know. But call girls -- women who work for escort services, especially like our concern Bangalore Girl Friend Experience - we don't look any different than anyone else, even always prettier. So we're scary. Because, you know, we could be you, too. Maybe we are.Our clients are stockbrokers, lawyers Doctors. There are computer geeks who couldn't tell a C-cup from a C-drive. They owned restaurants, and health spas. They were handicapped, busy, socially inept, about to be married. They saw girls in offices, restaurants, Malls in MG Road ,They were the most invisible, unremarkable group of men in Bangalore, having in common only that they could afford to spend INR 20,0OO/ for an hour of company from an independent high class escort.They used the time in a variety of ways, and that is my usual response when someone -- and someone will, inevitably, in any conversation about the profession -- says something judgmental about the perceived degradation of exchanging sex for money. Because, in my experience, that doesn't make sense. You think I ‘am just manipulating semantics here, don't you? I'm not: Hear me out. Many people are paid by the hour, right? An employer hires a consultant, for example, on the basis of certain areas of expertise the consultant can offer. The employer -- or client -- pays for the consultant's time by the hour. An independent high class escort is a consultant, using her expertise and experience in seduction and giving pleasure to fulfill a verbal contract with a client who is paying her by the hour. An escort is a skilled professional possessing knowledge for which there is a demand and for which the client is willing to pay her a predetermined rate.If there's such a gulf between these two people, if there is more degradation in one than in the other, I'd like you to explain it to me. I have women friends who are Call Center Executives in so-called MNC in White Fields, and I'm sorry, but I would never put up with what they have to endure every night. Not for any amount of money.Speaking of the money, it's a pretty good hourly rate. Remember that what we get, we don't have to share with anybody -- What we give our Concern Bangalore Girl Friend Experience is just Pea Nuts from what we earn and the truth is this you may encounter any of our Girls you may ask their opinion on this Issue. I take that back: It's a damned good hourly rate.

Occasionally there is no sex. Lonely men sometimes are just looking for company, for someone to listen to them: That's worth the fee. The reality, however, is that most clients in Bangalore do want sex. Some want it quickly and efficiently, after which the girl is free to go; others want it as part of a date-like Girl Friend Experience sort of for which we are trained better. And there's every imaginable situation in between. "Tonight?" For all my eagerness, that seemed very soon. Panic set in. "I'm not dressed." I was wearing jeans and a T-shirt with a black vest and an olive linen jacket. Not my image of how an independent high class escort from Bangalore Girl Friend Experience should dress. It was at that precise moment that I knew it was going to be all right. This wasn't anything esoteric or bizarre or dangerous: this was something I had done before, something I did well, and -- best of all -- Escorting is something I enjoyed doing.Later, I learned that some Escort girls in Bangalore won't kiss, that they consider their lips the only part of themselves they can withhold. I disagree. Maybe the pretense of romance is better than no romance at all. Or maybe I just like to kiss.." Everything you had been reading about Escorting in this web site was about how it contributed to the oppression of women, how it perpetuated men's fantasies of control and power. The business of Escorting had given me what I needed. It gave me financial security. And maybe, too, it gave me the thrill of having lived on the edge for a while.

Sometimes, even now, when it's around 7 o'clock in the night, I'll stop and wonder what's going on tonight. Who's working in our team at Bangalore Girl Friend Experience and who are not, which clients will call, that sort of thing. It won't be anybody that I know, not anymore. Time has moved on, in this business faster than anywhere else.But the names don't matter: The needs will always be the same. Telephones will ring, girls will fix their makeup in vanity mirrors. Tonight, as every night, money will change hands. Independent high class escort from Bangalore Girl Friend Experience will give pleasure, excitement, mystery, hope, enchantment.

I have told one story -- mine. I willingly and deliberately entered the employment of an escort agency. I do not regret having made that decision.Because agencies like Bangalore Girl Friend Experience, agencies that do not exploit or injure their employees, a number of women like myself were and continue to be able to attain a measure of financial security in a society where it is difficult for a woman to do so. I am aware, however, and most urgently want you to be aware, that many women are not in this profession because they need to meet many of their Commitments. I have a positive story to tell. I'm not at all sure that my experience is that of most women involved in this business of escorting.Please don't be so quick to call us hookers, to judge us. We could be your mother, your sister, your girlfriend, your daughter. Even your college professor.No, I take that back. It's not a matter of saying that we could be. We are.I like sharing my unique stories and discussing things that happen in my life as an independent high class escort Doesn’t matter what you call it: call girl, prostitute, lady of the night, or escort… it’s my occupation and love to share it with the people who are interested in listening.

Okay Guys. You always wondered if some of the girls you were working with in your Office work overtime outside the Office. If you know what I mean. Sure, you heard rumors about them ,but you never really took the time to go check it out with your friends. Here is the beautiful truth you were probably always fantasizing about in those dirty little heads of yours…Yes, there are working girls in Office, and you probably know a bunch of us; that’s right, I said us, because I am one of them. Welcome to Confessions of Nayanthara an independent high class escort with Bangalore Girl Friend Experience.

Escorts like us tend to be from middle to upper class families. We figure that since we are sexually active anyways, and have a certain type of guy we want to be with, why not get a little spending money on top of that. You see, we are not hooking on the corner of MG Road, or lurking in some seedy bar in Brigade Road. Most of my “relationships” I have met through my team at Bangalore Girl Friend Experience. The target is an attractive, older man, who is interested in casual sex, and of course, has the financial means. When I started as an escort in Bangalore Girl Friend Experience. I do get to choose who I want to sleep with, but given that I only date one or two new guys and they are all set up by my team at Bangalore Girl Friend Experience, the guys are usually hot and wealthy. So I don’t really have to turn too many down. This is not like a contract, and they do pay every time we are intimate, but it is understood that if they expect to “seal the deal” with me, there will be up front payments. I have never had a “client” just leave cash on the bed, but instead they usually just hand me a few thousand Rupees before the action Starts. Okay, so how profitable is it you ask, confessions of profitability you want. Well, I am not doing as well as some of the more famous independent high class escort in Bangalore Girl Friend Experience ,but just last year I made over INR 20 lacs,tax free of course. I am an escort after all. So yes, there are working girls or at least females behaving like escorts all over Bangalore,including in your Office. You never know, she could be that girl.I couldn't exactly say that I wasn't excited. I loved my job as an independent high class escort at Bangalore Girl Friend Experience and I knew I was one of the only lucky girls in Bangalore who could mean that…despite what said job might be. How many people can say that they love their jobs? I had the job that every girl wondered about; the job that was used between sexual partners as a role playing game. Yes, it may have been the job that was known as the universal taboo, but I was kicking that taboo's ass. A year ago, I would have been utterly disgusted with myself as an independent high class escort. Heck, I used to talk to my friends about how whorish and dirty it was to sell yourself for money; the job with a hundred names ranging from Escort, prostitute, hooker and whore… How could I love my job? That's what my friends used to ask me. I could understand why they asked me that. Hell, I could never understand my logic being a successful independent high class escort. Put me in a room in nothing but my birthday suit and a man who wanted nothing more than to stick himself in me and I was cool as a cucumber. Put me in a room with three women who wanted to talk about the past, relationships and how their sex lives sucked and I was utterly horrified. I paused in my thoughts for a second and inwardly laughed at myself. I was so pathetic. I loved what I did as an independent high class escort, right? I loved not having to deal with all of the usual relationship crap. I loved being able to have a job that was flexible and enjoyable. I loved not having to worry about when I would get my next Salary and not having to worry about paying next months rent.I’ll admit that I have joked to my friend about being left with no choice but to sell my body when I was particularly stressed about financial obligations and my lack of funds. Needless to say, they did not find that very funny and looked at me like I was nuts.

But, what would it really be like to work your way as an independent high class escort ? And share it with the whole world? Well not one girl is doing just that through this web site. http://www.bangaloregirlfriendsexperience.com, All my team mates had shared their Confessions in our Official website for you to have a glimpse of our world in Bangalore . And let me tell you, we do not hold anything back and shares every graphic detail.If one of Confessions that is very Intresting,yet at parts, very sad and disheartening, and for some reason, you just can’t stop reading.

The facts we just shared in our Official Website http://www.bangaloregirlfriendsexperience.com is a just a Sample of what is confessed Although interesting to read, it also makes us sad that how a lady feels the pressure to have money while realizing how hard it was to live in a city like Bangalore without Money, and chose Escorting as our solution. I applauded my team mates at Bangalore Girl Friend Experience for their bravery for sharing these stories with the world, but hope that in the future, we might be able to find a less dangerous way to make a living.

How are we really serious with this?

Honestly?

For those of you who don’t know, Confessions of independent high class escort in this official website is about girls, who work as Escorts for her source of income. Everything we say here is legitimate truth as of right now…I do think ,I don’t think we are fabricating any of it… WE JUST WANT THE CLIENTS OF Bangalore Girl Friend Experience TO UNDERSTAND US AS FELLOW HUMAN BEINGS.

For one, this isn’t a low-grade erotica Website featuring half nude Girls. If she was what she says she is, why would a call girl in my team at Bangalore Girl Friend Experience putting herself all the trouble of detailing about herself ,why the hell would she detail exactly what she does to her clients? We all know how to put two and two together…prostitutes have sex. For money. Is this not common knowledge? Let me know if it isn’t. People needs to understand http://www.bangaloregirlfriendsexperience.com has much better material and too may folks like us depend upon this Concern for their bread and butter, Crusaders and Kin heated Samaritans who would like to advice us on discontinuing our line of work are requested NOT to Contact us. Remember, if you really would like to help us then do utilize our services and pay us MORE than our rates! This would go a long way in making things better for us as Money does make the world go round!!.Thanks very much.

Secondly, I surprisingly nonchalant about my encounters and the emotions that come with them. If I was putting myself through the virtue of hand jobs, first off I’d be embarrassed. Second, I wouldn’t tell people exactly how the encounters went. If I were to write about this (presuming I’d want ANYONE to know about it), I’d be a tad more nondescript in terms of what I did to people. I know how my concern does care for us and keep all our girls identity a secret but still. If I was going to be a whore to fund my Luxury life style (which, I HAVE considered, not as good halfheartedly), several times. This sh*t isn’t cheap), I would at least make my experience constructive. You don’t need to give us the juicy (literally) details, how about you just…reflect. We KNOW what we are doing. We’re not stupid. Never make a client who is GOD to us feel stupid.

Maybe I am bitter. I know I’m pretty freaking’ poor. There’s just INR 10,000/ in my bank account (don’t judge me, please). I know that I am making absurd amounts of money in half an hour as an independent high class escort. So maybe I’m just jealous. Maybe I’m pissed because I absolutely love sex, and to get paid for it would be the most enjoyable and convenient thing. Maybe I’m even more pissed because there is virtually no market for lesbian prostitutes in Bangalore (actually, am I wrong about this? Let me know).The escort is despised by the hypocritical world because she has made a realistic assessment of her assets and does not have to rely on fraud to make a living. In an area of human relations where fraud is regular practice between the sexes, her honesty is regarded with a mocking wonder.I’m not a slut. I have standards, and I’d rather be poor for the rest of my life.

We can immortalize something like this and think, ‘Wow, she is a powerful woman getting what she wants in life‘, but I say f*ck that. Hooking is the easiest job because SOMEONE will always want to stick something in your whatever. Stop being lazy and get a real job. You live in BANGALORE F**CKING CITY. Where you really can’t find a decent paying job?I live in Bangalore City and , sh*t it is expensive up here ,but I’m not hooking in the Commoner at night just to pay for my whims.

An escort girl, a hooker or someone who works in the industry; call it what you want, she is not precious about the titles. “No matter what you call it, at the end of the day it all boils down to prostitution,” she says. “You're selling yourself for sex,Every so often I get emails at my official mail ID team@bangaloregirlfriendsexperience.com,that really come across as hateful or in general sex worker bashing. (Oh, like that’s really anything new.) Of course everyone is entitled to their own opinion of Escorting and I respect that 1st Amendment right, however, it seems that since I am the only sex worker then I am not entitled to my own opinion or to share my point of view of my line of work with others. Like I glorify it on here in my Official site at Bangalore Girl Friend Experience only speaking half truths, and maybe I really must hate myself, have plenty of issues, and was really forced into this line of work as an independent high class escort at Bangalore Girl Friend Experience . Well, that’s true (I know the cynics will be disappointed!)

Since I stay up quite late at night, I typically wake up in time for lunch and sometimes eat out at places frequented by local corporate workers in their lunch breaks like Places in Manipal Center in Ulsoor. I sit in a table nearby and can’t help but hearing their ongoing, mundane conversations. Sometimes I don’t want to hear them, but that’s just too bad because I will be subjected to the woman bellowing out her latest bellyache about some other female employee or some other random drama back at the office. I sit there and I think to myself, is this what the average, anti-sex worker person wants me to do? Be just as miserable as this woman at her boring, dead-end corporate job? Who can’t even relax at a nice lunch for an hour and talk about anything else, maybe even something that’s nice and pleasant? I mean these people I listen to are average corporate Bangalorians with a “real” job where they go to some office for a set number of hours a day for a set number of days a week. All they can go on about is how they can screw over their boss or company (or government), instead of relaxing during that one hour off to eat. I sit there and think to myself, “If I had that job I would be so miserable and feel so trapped,” and yet in my current job as an independent high class escort I don’t ever feel that way. I don’t feel trapped, I don’t feel miserable, and I can’t beat making my own schedule. I know “they” all want me to feel that way, or “they” want me to come out and admit that my life is a wreck, but it isn’t, and I won’t ever let it be that way. Of course I have friends that really enjoy their jobs at MNC in Bangalore Corporate World and the line of work they are in, and I am happy for anyone else who enjoys their job at the same type of place… It’s just not for me. About the dark side of prostitution and how it sickens me what people to do others with trafficking. There definitely are girls that need to be helped and pimps that need to be prosecuted for forcing anyone into prostitution. Yes, there is a dark side to this business, but there are dark sides to a lot of other businesses too. I recently read somewhere in a news article that the “happy hooker” is just a myth and it’s all a lie. No matter what we are all “victims” of “the game” (I really hate that term!) Sorry, but the girls I know are definitely not a myth and are not miserable. So please go help those who need the help (I would even like to help too), but don’t group us all into the category of being trapped or wanting out. I’m happy right where I am for now, and I can do whatever I want when I so chose.

I feel like more people need to be better educated of the many ways that STDs can be transmitted and how they are not just transmitted through vaginal penetration, like many believe. I hate to roll out the list of diseases that can be communicable through oral contact when a client wants to argue about my safety rules, but they need to know and educate themselves even if it’s an uneasy topic in the middle of a session. Neither price nor gift will sway me to change my rules and I hope it will only benefit others to be more aware of the spread of disease. As far as my personal health goes, being safe has worked for our Escort team at Bangalore Girl Friend Experience , and we believe it will work for all of you, “I had a choice. I could have left plenty of times but I didn't want to, because the money was so good. It was addictive. There were some really low points but you just got over them and picked yourself up again. There are regrets but at the same time, it's a business arrangement. It was a job and it's all about acting.“Sometimes I enjoyed my job as an independent high class escort. I met a lot of people and, hopefully, with my advice and reassurance, I left a lot of them thinking that they could be happy. But I never fancied any of my clients. A lot of men knew that I didn't give a toss about them but then others would say things like, ‘It's just you and me. Come on, I've seen you lots of times. We could build something.' And in my head I'd be thinking, ‘What are you talking about? There's nothing to build.'“If you ask me do I regret escorting, I'd say no, because I got myself into a rut. I never asked anybody to lend me money. To a degree I sold my soul but I'd rather sell my soul in that way and go home and be myself, than live a complete lie. I never told any of them that I loved them.”Nayanthara doesn't seem like the sort of girl who would end up as a prostitute. After all, she comes from a respectable middle-class home.“People make it out to be seedy but a lot of the clients were really nice. They were just on business trips. A lot of them say that their wives refuse to have sex with them. They're just normal men who basically wanted sex,”Nayanthara says. “A lot of men don't even have sex with you. They just want to have a woman sitting down listening to them and not making them feel like s**t.”She always practices safe sex. For an all-night job, she would get anything between INR 20,000/ to INR 25,000/ but a lot of the time for that they'd bring her out for a meal and drinks. “If they have a drink, they'll fall asleep so you wouldn't have to do anything. That's a bonus,” says Nayanthara.Nayanthara believes that eight out of 10 men have sex with escorts because they are being bullied by their wives and they're not having sex at home. The others who come to her have a happy sex life but they're just greedy.But why do successful young men go with escorts when surely they can get it for free, with hordes of women clamoring for them?.I’ve never understood the reluctance to pay for an escort. The way I see it, escorts provide the best of both worlds. Not only are you pretty much guaranteed to get someone who knows how to f****k, you get someone who either enjoys doing it or are good enough at faking it that you won’t know any different. And more importantly you don’t have to deal with any of the heartache. You make a phone call, order the services and type of independent high class escort you desire is in your door step, pay your money, then relax and start getting warmed up. No need for any false pretence, no need for any emotional ties, and no need for any awkwardness associated with conventional male/female relationships. No worry about talking afterward. Or sharing your feelings. None of that crap applies. As for the morals of the transaction? What are morals anyway but a set of standards forced upon us by the arbitrary whims of the society. Do what you want, what makes you feel good. Let them live their own life. So the way Nayanthara see it, give me an escort or give me death. But enough of the rambling, I’m sure you want to get the good stuff.

For the guys who want to see our face picture before we meet them, knowing very well we do not show our face on our website. I have a beautiful face and I KNOW it. Everyone loves my face, maybe too much. It is how I am a successful as an independent high class escort in Bangalore and can pull in INR 50,000 a week. If I had an ugly face ,do you think I would still be charging INR 10,000 for an hour? I KNOW my face and general appearance is fantastic and I use it to my advantage. I honestly laugh when Clients ask me why my skin is so soft. Let me tell you my routine. I am a bit obsessive compulsive when I comes to flesh to flesh skin cells rubbing off on me. I SCRUB myself every night with Ayurvedic Medicines and anything else I can find that is abrasive enough to make my skin raw. This is to get my skin cells and germs off me. Repeat, we are NOT dating. I am not your girlfriend. Stop thinking you are cool enough for me to be here I will never come ? If there was no money involved. And please do not tell me you love me, 3 clients this week already told the same.I want to be very clear that I recommend this escorting lifestyle for NO ONE. It is easy enough to cross the line because the line is invisible. Much harder still to go back, to return to a time when you shared no piece of yourself with strange men, men you don't like, even men who don't like you. I am doing it now as an independent high class escort with my Concern. Bangalore Girl Friend Experience and felt that I was getting off scot-free with minimal psychological impact. I was having fun at first; I felt beautiful and confident and adored and I was financially secure for the first time ever. But those nights found their way underneath my skin. The wound is still just burrowed down deep under the folds of my subconscious like a rat nestled at the bottom of a shopping bag.

On a happy end note I do have to give some credit to the normal guys. The married ones who are stuck in a marriage and are very attractive and could literally get any younger female they wanted, I salute and respect you. Because you and I both know you can get an attractive girl, who is unsuspecting and sweet and thinks the best of people, to go home with you after you feed her lies just to get into her pants, and then act as if you care for a while until the sex gets old then throw her out of the relationship. Get smart ladies! Stop sleeping around and not using condoms. Fact: My escort team mates at Bangalore Girl Friend Experience use condoms, Men go after what you want. I understand my relationship to you is a client, provider on and there are no gray lines. That is what you are there for, and so am I. You, fantasy,sex and it works out.

SO STOP ASKING ME MY REAL GOD DAMN NAME!!!!! It's none of your business this is a fantasy I fulfill for yours and kindly we beg you and please do stop making it so god damn personal. I am NOT your girlfriend/wife (or want to be) we are just a sweet face............

Thursday, 5 January 2012

Escort Shreya's Diary To my old clients


Escort Shreya's Diary To my old clients

To my old clients
A final farewell.. maybe I'm seeking closure tonight.

To most of the clients, the one time dates and the repeat customers who bought me without ever acknowledging who I might really be- or how what I was doing was affecting me, I can say that I truly resent you. I resent myself more, but you played your role too. Maybe you were fooled by the smiles. Maybe you were just too caught up in your need to realize the effect you would have. But you did have an effect on me. I cant remember your faces, or our encounters- but I remember the feelings I had, and they suck.

To the ones who cared, I am torn between hating you for still buying my body, and being thankful to you for being nice to me. For seeing me regularly so I did not have to meet with so many strangers. For asking me how I was doing, why was I in this business, and when would I stop. You still bought me, and used me for your gratification, but you offered a smidge of kindness at a time when I craved any bit i could get, and so I guess I do have to be thankful for that. Thank you to the ones who tried to convince me to stop, to leave my boyfriend who was pushing me to escort, or to at least plan financially so I could stop soon.

I didn't have any family by that point. I didnt have any friends, so I am ashamed to say that sometimes I looked forward to our visits. Not because I wanted to touch you. I didn't. But I needed human interaction, attention, conversation. I needed to get away from the boyfriend you all glared at sitting in your driveway. You were right. No one who really cared about me wouldve let me do that, they wouldnt have been able to sit outside knowing. I didnt believe you at the time. I thought you were just trying to date me. But you were all older than me, and in better places, and im sure you could see it better than I could.

I wasn't really there during our meetings- and I know I faked it really well. But I couldnt tell you apart. I just wanted you to feel comfortable with me, and for you to think I was happy. I dont know why I owed you that protection from my real feelings. Maybe i didnt want the pity. I was still trying to convince myslelf i was okay, and to be honest i was so wrapped up in my own world that I would never have really let any of you in.

And so thats it. To those of you who thought they knew a piece of the real me- you didnt. I lied. I lied about family, kids, ages, jobs. I told you what you needed to hear. To those who traveled from far away multiple times a month, I didnt think about you until i knocked at your door. It is just now that I am realizing you may have planned and looked forward to our visits. Sorry.

I was scared and lonely, and very very hurt. Thats who I was. I wanted to go home and curl up and watch tv. I wanted to get married and have babies with someone who loved me. I wanted, desperately, to be loved. I hated escorting, and if you had offered me a regular job for you instead of sex, you would have seen a real smile from me.

Shreya Reddy In Marthalli

Tuesday, 15 November 2011

Orgasm


How you "get"or achieve orgasm will depend on whether you are male or female, and also whether you are with a partner or not.

For solo individuals, touching genitalia in ways that feel best to you will generally lead to the easiest orgasms. Females have a clitoris, men have a penis, there is also the G-spot and the P-spot (see the related links below for more information about them).

With a partner - if you are a straight couple, engage in the normal procedure of intercourse. For males, achieving orgasm like this is fairly easy. For females, a little trickier. Try to get the male to use his penis or other parts to stimulate the places that you know feel good. Tell your partner what feels good to you, don't make them guess. Talking about it to each other can also help arouse you both.

If you have trouble achieving orgasm or experience pain during intercourse, see your health care professional to be sure there is no physical problem, as pain-free, enjoyable sex is the goal.

During sex you'll experience it just by having intercourse as long as there is plenty of foreplay and stimulation. The brain is a big part of helping achieve orgasm, it is good to think about what is happening and to imagine or fantasize what arouses you. Fantasy is normal and encouraged. This is why many people enjoy sexually explicit videos, etc. leading up to the sexual act.

During masturbation you should start slowly and "tease" yourself a bit, make your desires stronger by some start and stop movements. Women often start to rub their clitoris or inside their vagina, then move away from the clitoris and don't touch it directly again until you just can't stop yourself anymore. Then after a while you'll feel your muscles tighten and feel a tingly feeling in your tummy. So start going faster, then your muscles will tighten maybe twitch don't stop keep going. Then you'll feel an amazing sensation that is indescribable You may not be able to hear anything during your orgasm if you do it good. So if your not tired try to do it again.

Some "toys" to stimulate or vibrate are often preferred to manual stimulation. Some people use anything that vibrates, even the back of an old electric tooth brush. Or muscle vibrators or sex toys especially for the purpose (usually safer).

Males usually know how to do this pretty much instinctively from an early age.

Some female contributors have said:
I just finger myself either in the shower or bathroom or I sit naked on a chair and move my pelvis forward and back fast and I can feel a pumping sensation in my vagina but it gives me pleasure. I recommend watching porn while fingering that is what gives me great orgasms!
Sit on your bed naked rub your fingers or almost anything around your clitoris it feels so good you will be very happy afterward
Usually from masturbation.
When having sex with a man, try sqeezing your pelvic muscles. Not only will he love this as it increases the intensity on his penis but you will be able to feel everything a lot more. Also, whilst having sex trying rubbing your clitoris. I find rubbing in a circular motion is best but some like tapping or up and down. Also, dirty talk is a great way to orgasm. Although you may feel a bit silly at first it really turns both of you on. Try "I want you harder" or "This feels so good!" or "Faster" or "Slower"
Not everything works for every person, so try different things until you figure out what works for you. If you have never had one before it may be difficult to figure out what you are looking for. Generally, the muscles in the abdomen and legs will tense or twitch. You may feel like you need to pee or you may sweat a lot. If you are having a man do it for you, it is good to give direction until he does something that feels good to you. Many women enjoy receiving oral sex. If you can find a man who is open to giving it, it's definitely something you need to experience.








Relax and stimulate your clitoris or penis and fantasize. (Women often begin by gently stimulating their breasts).
Focus on your fantasies and keep them alive, as having an orgasm is NOT a purely physical matter.
Arousal and excitement should build up to the point where they involve growing tension which for a second or so becomes almost unbearable.
It peaks, you seem to go over over a threshold and the tension explodes into intensely pleasurable release.
There is often something ecstatic about a really powerful orgasm.
'Orgasm' is the term for the climax, 'crossing the threshold' and the release that follows. The basic elements of orgasm are the same for both sexes: arousal - almost unbearable 'tension' - climax - release.
Men usually ejaculate during release but with women this is much less common (and not necessary).


To have an orgasm (this is for women), use your middle finger on the hand you write with.
Move down from the belly-button, and when you feel the "bump"(clit), the long one right above your vagina, gently circle it.
For most it takes around 5-10 minutes to climax or orgasm.
Once again you have to relax! If you start to get really tense relax again, and just focus on your fantasy.

For a man, to reach an orgasm yourself, you hold your erect penis like a football. You move your hand up and down grasping your penis.
You foreskin should move.

Fantasize while you are doing this and it will happen faster.
When you start feeling the sensation, do it faster, you will soon reach an orgasm state and sperm will then come out.
Don't do these when you need to have a pee, it takes longer if there is pee in your system. Urinate before you start. Also, occasionally, you may wet yourself with the tension. Have fun!

One way is to take your penis and your hands, and rub your penis with both hands from the sides of your penis. (left and right sides).
In a man's case you have to grip the penis and rub or masturbate.

The male orgasm or Ejaculation is brought on by the pleasuring,aka masturbation of ones genitalia,the Penis or Testicles,stimulating them,rubbing the foreskin up and down on ones glans till you have a heavenly feel of exhiliration and the whole body shudders with that erotic exotic explosive feeling,emitting a cloudy white teaspoon of semen which contains the Male sperm to fertilize the females egg and produce a hopefully wanted offspring.

In the female its the rubbing of the Vagina inside and the Major Minor labia,Vulva and Clitoris till Orgasm or multiple Orgasms brought on by the hand,toys,penis,oral etc.
One way is to take your penis and your hands, and rub your penis with both hands from the sides of your penis. (left and right sides).
You can have an orgasm through sex or masturbation.
An orgasm is a climax of sexual pleasure which is then released making you feel good.
For a girl, rub the clitoris. when you feel that feeling, rub it harder, faster till you feel that your getting to your climax. Once you know you got it, use two or more fingers and put it in your vagina and go deeper till you feel.

I hump a really big pillow while watching porn. It works!
Depends whether you are a guy or a girl.
Stimulating the sensitive genitalia area in a way that feels good for you should do the trick.
Through sex or masturbation. During sex you'll experience it just by having sex. During masturbation you should start slowly and tease yourself start to rub your clit or stick your fingers up your vagina . Then after a while you'll feel your muscle tighten and feel a tingly feeling in your tummy. So start going faster then your muscles will tighten maybe twitch don't stop keep going . Then you'll feel an amazing sensation that is indescribable You may not be able tomhear anything during your orgasm if you do it good. So if your not tired try to do it again.:)
Masturbate or have sexual intercourse. It's important that the clitoris, which is right above your vagina, gets stimulated.
Orgasm is the result of masturbating. When you masturbate, you constantly rub your pubic area (girls=vagina, boys=penis) and think of (sexual) things that make your pubic area "shake" or move. When you do it for an amount of time (depends on each person) you have orgasm when your privates move uncontrollably and you have quenched the desire for sex for your body.
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Orgasms do come from masturbation by male or female but also come from sexual intercourse also. Orgasm is the point of no return in the act of sex, it usually comes with ejaculation of fluids, semen in the case of a male.
put your middle finger on ur belly then put lower it till u get to ur vag. then circle it, then you get faster.
play phone sex or txt sex
obviously fingers and sex toys, but i use a shower head on full, i turn it on, open my legs and get comfy in the bath, even your bf can watch or help you by touching you. then use in a circular motion over your clit. start off slow and then make the circular motion go the other way, quicker up the speed and bring the shower head closer. widen your legs and make a humping action if needed- you WILL orgasm
Electric toothbrush, vibrators, dildos, rubbing like pillows, towels, sides of beds...(I dont use that one, I heard it works, though!) etc.. Showerheads...running bath water..

well, you could use a shower head, wen u take ur next shower take the shower head off, then turn it on turbo and not to hot, lay down, spread ur legs, find ur clit and lean on one elbow while ur getting busy with the water, your legs will shake and u'll breath heavy trust me i do it EVERYDAY! u know its wrking wen u are so shaky you have to stop to get a breather... you'll crave it after tht!

For most women two areas easily produce the best orgasms, first and the easiest is the "Clitoral stimulation" (care must be taken not to overwork this organ, it can become sore and tender). Second, the "Vagina and famed G-spot", women can have single or multiple orgasms.
practice or more time between each one
Vaginal or clitoral orgasms
make ur guy last longer by thinkin bout other stuff
You can have an orgasm in response to masturbating or through sex. It's a nerve response that sends messages to your brain.
WOMEN: take the middle finger of the hand you write with and slowly move it down from your belly button, when you feel the "bump" slighty over the vagina slowly rub hard in cirlces, this takes about 5-10 minutes for most women. when you start to feel like you NEED MORE, go faster and harder then for about 3 seconds its almost unbearable, you center stiffens and you may urinate or squirt without feeling.

MEN: hold your penis like a football, and kind of shake it up and down keep doing so (try tickling your penis) untill semen comes out when the semen stops u may start again its only possible for 50 orgasms a day.


for a girl: you can rub down there in a circle rotation on the good spot if you know what I'm talking about, or you cant put a banana there and move it up and down to stimulate a orgasm to come, or my favorite is you can hump a pillow and there are many more ways.

its when during sex, or masturbation when you climax. it is the most pleasure. men can do about once a day, females up to 5 or 6 times
Well basically, each woman has different spots which cause orgasm
The Clit
- Just above the vigina
- This was made for pleasure!
- This is the normal place for orgasm, simply rub fast from side to side!
- But if this seems like to much work, all you do is buy a vibrator
- place on the clit and enjoy...
- If you feel uncomftable buying one, a old electric tooth brush will do

Effects of a orgasm
Your muscles will tense
Moaning and sounds
Squiting may happen
You may get to excited and have to move the vibrator, this will happen at the first time


Males and females achieve orgasms differently...
Orgasm is this unbelievably great feeling that comes after prolonged sexual activity, but it needs to build to a sufficient level. I would assume you haven't had sex yet, so you should do a couple of searches on masturbation or ask a few friends.

When you have your first orgasm, you will know it, and you'll do it again really soon.

Assuming you're a guy, just do something to your penis that feels good and keep doing it for longer than you probably want to and it will blow your mind. That's clue #1.

Oh yeah, and try really hard to remember this "first orgasm" stuff when it's happening - it's seriously important stuff that you only get to experience once, sort of the ultimate "first kiss."

It really depends on the girl. Some girls don't like to moan others do. Usually if a guy is in deep enough or going fast enough or making their clit feel good then a girl would most likely have an orgasm
Provide gentle stimulation on the head of his penis in a rhythmical way.
This will provide the male with feeling of pleasure and bliss.

Repeat until his arousal reaches peak point - after that he will achieve an orgasm, ejaculating sperm and going trough feeling of overwhelming arousal and pleasure.

When sexual excitement builds up and reaches a peak a person might experience an orgasm, also called a climax, or 'coming'. The sexual excitement might start from someone masturbating on their own, or through kissing, masturbating or having sex with another person.
Sexual excitement usually grows gradually and a person feels more and more pleasure and a kind of exciting tension. All the feelings of tension then disappear when the orgasm happens, and the person experiences feelings of intense pleasure. The feeling can be so strong that a person might not be able to see, or hear or think about anything for a moment. They might even groan and call out with the pleasure. Orgasms usually last only a few seconds but the feelings might last a lot longer.
When a man has an orgasm he ejaculates. This means that sperm mixed with semen comes out of the end of his penis in a sticky white fluid. After a man has ejaculated he loses his erection and usually needs to stop for a while. When a woman has an orgasm, her vagina often becomes very wet, but she can continue being sexually aroused as long as she likes. Some women can experience more than one orgasm without stopping.
If a person doesn't have an orgasm, it doesn't mean anything is wrong. In fact, worrying about reaching an orgasm or being nervous is quite likely to make it hard for a person to relax enough to have one.

There are two basic types of orgasms, which are the clitoral orgasm and the vaginal orgasm. But orgasms don't stop at simply one stimulation or another. There are variety of orgasms women experience through a variety of different stimulation techniques.
The Clitoral Orgasm
This is the most common and easiest of the orgasms to achieve for most women, as the stimulation is quite intense and there is less need to be completely relaxed for it to work. This is also the reason why a lot of women can only have an orgasm through the stimulation of the clitoris.

The Vaginal Orgasm
This occurs with the G-spot or the sensitive vaginal walls are stimulated. These orgasms can range in intensity depending upon the stimulation used.
Pressure Orgasms
This orgasm comes from indirect pressure. This is not to be confused with rubbing or caressing an area that is sensitive to stimulation. This can occur from simply rocking back and forth to squeezing your legs together.
Tension Orgasms
This type of orgasm occurs from direct, intense stimulation. This usually involves your body being tense and typically holding your breathe. Tension orgasms are the most common among women. This orgasms are often referred to as peak orgasms due to the intensity of building up to the orgasm followed by a sudden release that explodes in pleasure. It is like waves crashing against the rocks on a beach.
Relaxation Orgasms
An orgasm can be achieved by simply relaxing during sexual stimulation. As you continue to relax and release all tension, this orgasm sneaks up on you. It is also referred to as valley orgasms. It is like laying on a sandy beach and the water gently rushing over you.
Grafenburg Spot (G-Spot) Orgasms
Many women agree that the orgasms achieved by stimulating the G-Spot feels different from the orgasms achieved through clitoral stimulation. Some will argue that this orgasm is better than any other.

Multiple Orgasms
Multiple orgasms are the aftershock of an intense orgasm. They come in waves of steady bursts that heighten pleasure. Some women can have up to 20 to 30 orgasms in one session. One of the downsides to multiple orgasms is that many women (and men) have anxiety about whether they can achieve multiple orgasms. By stressing about having one, you take away from the optimal pleasure that would help you achieve multiple orgasms. The key is not to think about it. Stop focusing so much on having them and simply focus on enjoying yourself and/or your partner.
Combination Orgasms
This occurs when several areas are stimulated simultaneously, causing a variety of different orgasms. Combination or blended orgasms are also achieved when a variety of orgasms occur during one session. This allows all of your senses to open up when the clitoris and vagina is stimulated, along with the pubococcygeus muscle (PC muscle) contractions, and pelvic thrusts cause a variety of different orgasms to occur.
Fantasy Orgasms
Although not as common, a few women have achieve orgasms through mental stimulation, such as fantasies. Some women can simply think about a fantasy or have a dream in their sleep and be able to achieve a type of orgasms. Many argue whether or not these are valid orgasms. Some people even believe that these would be lesser orgasms. Whether valid or not, they have still been known to occur by simply fantasizing.

There are five places you can reach orgasm with:

Clitoris
Vaginal entrance
G-spot
Cervix
Anus

Clitoris is the most intense and easiest to reach. Just rub it until you can't feel your legs. =) It helps to rotate between rubbing vertically, horizontally, circularly to the left, then to the right. Keep going till it hurts to touch it.

Vaginal entrance is hard to do by yourself. It's best to have a big penis to slide in and out of it. Warming lubricants are best for this one.

G-spot is the best, in my opinion. It's hard to locate - think of it as the other end of your clit. It's most easily located in sex when entering from the rear, such as doggy style. Those positions set everything at the optimum angle for gaining g-spot orgasm.

Cervix is best left for a second or third time through, as it can be too intense, even to the point of pain if not done properly. This is only gained through really deep penetration.

Anal is intense and fairly easily reached, but is too painful and/or awkward for some people. Don't feel bad if it's not for you.

If this doesn't work, try two or three at the same time, such as being penetrated deeply with long strokes from the back while rubbing your own clit.
one word, "endurance"
the longer you are stimulated without orgasm the harder the orgasm will be.
Rub something against it.
That is called masturbation and basically involves playing with your sex organs.


Reaching an Orgasm

The key to reaching an orgasm for a female is to totally relax and enjoy yourself with him.
For some people you can masterbate by rubbing Your penis up and down also it helps if you fantisize about Breasts and what not this answer depends if your a male or female
Masturbation
A dick, finger or vibrator

by the man doing work. amen
To have an Orgasm he needs to Masturbate. Stimulating the Penis will make it erect, continuing will end in orgasm and maybe ejaculation, depending on how far into Puberty he is.
For yourself: relax.

For your partner: listen to their noises. Each person is different, so try to figure out what feels good to them. Once you two learn each other's bodies, orgasms will become easier and more frequent. Also, don't be afraid to talk about it.
females recieves orgasms when a penis is entered into the vagina, she will recieve a moment of great pleasure and excitemnt in sexual activity(a dick enter's the vagina moves about it,the woman recieves a great feeling and screams a bit)-that is an orgasm x
Stroke and rub your vagina and especially the clit and labia. Nibble and pinch lightly on the nipples. DON'T start with putting anything inside. That is not necessary to make a woman come and actually feels better after the first orgasm. They only do that in porn and that is not real life.

what i always do is get a pile of cushions, go on and put on a really loud video. then place a hairbrush under the first pillow, the handle sticking up, when the sounds start, hump your pile. this always works for me, i love it. my fav video is bent over the desk

You 1) stick your tongue on her clit and 2) bang her till she screams! Then you have acomplished your goal :)
how girls orgasm it preety easy.....you can also do it your self or with your lover....we gurls have "g-spots" so when you add pressure to it fills up with fluid so you have a feeling you really need to pee so when you have this feeling you have to push( and it feels so good with it flowing out of you.)(it will get messy though if you squrt like me...omg i remeber when i hit the wall a couple feet way from me)
A good way is to try to hold it off a little bit, but not too much or else you will lose it entirely. And do Kegel-exercises.
There are several ways to orgasm better. I assume this question was asked by a woman because men usually don't have a problem with this. 1) Learn to do Kegel exercises and do them often. 2) Experimenting while masterbating is the best way to learn your body and what you like best. Get over any hangups you have about it and do it, with and without toys, and often. 3) Once you know what you like and don't like, communicate with your partner and tell them what you want. If you are having trouble with orgasms during intercourse, ask your partner for oral on you until you orgasm, and then go to the intercourse. All three steps are crucial and required to improve orgasm. Also, if you and your lover read sex manuals together and can play, that helps too.
== Answer == Relax and enjoy, don't worry about having an orgasm and you probably will.
If your a boy you run your hand up and down your penis.

Women usually rub their genitals on the outside and especially the clitoris.
By having a SHOWer.....
Use a dildo
a man sticks his head nice and hard in the vagina and then starts to lick it until it feels good
Hold out for as long as humanly possible. If you start to feel tingling, try to control it and hold back until you can't anymore.
get comfortable on your bed and explore your female parts gently with your fingers, find the spot that feels really good when you stimulate it, and massage it for awhile. You will find out that there is a female orgasm in there and it will come out.
"Best" means different things to different people. Therefore, you have to find out what feels best for you. There is no universal answer for this kind of question.
finger urslef for a long time til u squirt After having a orgasm by fingering yourself for instance go for the G-spot. If it works tha orgasms keep coming as long as you put pressure on it.
Jacking off
== Answer == Rub a dub dub.

Not very complicated, unless you have emotional blockage or sexuality issues.

finger urself for a long time and squirt as much as u can it will hurt but after that its goin to be the best thing u ever felt
It depends whether you mean through masturbation or sex? A lot of people cant orgasm from sex, but they can from masturbation and foreplay. Best way is practice just on yourself to find out which bits are most sensitive. try rubbing little circles over he top of the clit. once you learn how you like it then its easier to initiate sex to make you orgasm too
Stroking, rubbing the clitoris and labia and vulva usually do the trick.
Well, there are many options:
1) Get a boy/girl-friend that knows how to make you orgasm.
2) Buy a vibrator. These things can make almost every girl orgasm :>
3) Use your fingers, dildo or another object. Then play with your vagina, clitoris, and maybe other parts of your body. See what gives you pleasure and get better at it.
You can also try using shower to get pleasure...
that depends on the woman but typically a store bought (like at walmart) vibrator will really help. that and some serious finger action at the same time usually does the trick another thing to remember is stress or the inability to feel relaxed really reeks havoc on the ability to peak. normally feels good.
inserting the penis into the vagina rapidly
Touch yourself
Down there
Tickle yourself
It will feel good
thats right
Oh
Get a boyfriend

1. get naked
2. take your little guy and get a hard on
3. take your hand over your hard guy and start going up and down
4. you will feel something after you keep going don't stop
5. you will orgasm and sperm will come out
6. clean it up and do it again later

it sounds weird but if you eat lots of carbo hydrates before sex it ensures orgasms to last longer!!
By stimulationg the clitoris through either directly rubing it or aplying subtle pressure to it -what ever feels best. Be passionate, naughty - a lot of a girls sexual pleasures come in her brain activity. You can indeed get her a bit wet just by doing this, then, start by maybe tease her clit by playing with it with your finger, be kind of fast, don't do this for a long time(at first). Then, move your finger down into her vagina in one long motion, getting your finger wet with her vaginal mucus and start to rub her clit (try to keep it wet) up and down, side to side, and/or in circular motions. Pay attention to her reactions, like muscles flexing, maybe she starts to breathe harder, maybe she will let out little moans. See what she likes most and kind of experiment with her clit/vagina.

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Every female is different. One thing they seem to have in common, is that they need both mental and physical stimulation to even be turned on. One word I cant stress enough is FOREPLAY . Touching, kissing, licking etc. Take your time. Also, most females cant reach orgasm through insertion alone. They need clitoral stimulation whether its by a partner or themselves. They also need to be comfortable, which is the whole mental thing. As you get to know each other, your chances of her achieving orgasm will increase. Good Luck!
slowly rub your vagina in a circular motion. once this has been done for 5-10 min. insert your fingers slowly into your vagina. then you pretend as if your fingers a penis and put it in and take it out
finger yourself down there or use a sex toy
You orgasm during sex
with clitoris stimulation
watch...
porn...
lesbian...
porn...
it doesnt matter if your a boy or not, everyone thinks lesbian sex is HOT!
plain and simple, masterbate or have sex.
Masturbate or have sex.
Ignore the last answer, to put your fist inside a woman's/girls vagina is uncomfortable for her and could hurt her. The best way to give a woman/girl an orgasm is to give lots of foreplay, kissing, hugging...playing with her tits, gently. Rubbing and gently squeezing her nipples, sucking her nipples...then move down and do the same to her clitoris. You will know when she is having/or had an orgasm and she will probably ask you to insert your penis into her vagina, so she can finish her orgasm with a sense that she will feel that you have made love to her.
Having a quick orgasm (or any orgasm for that matter) usually relies on two things. The first is physical stimulation of the genital area. For women, that would be the labia majora and labia minora (inner and outer lips surrounding the vagina), the vagina itself and the clitoris. For men, it's the glans (head) of the penis and the surrounding tissue, especially on the underside (the perineum). When these areas are stimulated by rubbing, either by hand, mouth or through penetrative intercourse is the easiest way to orgasm.

However, the second, more important aspect of "coming" quickly depends on the body's largest sex organ; your brain. If you're stressed, feeling inhibited in any way (body issues, nervous, shy, etc.), don't like the person you're with, it will be hard to orgasm, and almost impossible to do so quickly.

The answer to a quick orgasm lies with being comfortable. Being comfortable being naked, enjoying the person you are with, comfortable with your sexuality, being comfortable with what turns you on and focusing on those things. It's about letting go completely and enjoying the moment without any distractions. You can do it, if you give yourself permission to do so.
Try oral sex or sticking your fingers in her vagina. If that does not work try sticking your penis in her. I presonally think oral sex works faster. I like it when my boyfriend sucks and kisses my vagina and clitoris. But ask her what she likes. It probably would be oral sex oh and try sucking on her breast I love that and make sure you rub, kiss,and lick her ALOT!

I like it when my boyfriend sticks his fingers in my vagina it works fast but also the sucking works to. sucking feels better.
If a person stimulates or has someone else stimulate the sexual organs especially the head of the penis in the case of a man or the clitoris in the case of a woman then eventually in most instances orgasm will take place.
Women orgasm from their vagina men orgasm from their penis.
I would also like to know the awnser to this.

Stimulate the anus before and during the orgasm. Both female and males report more intense orgasms while the anus is played with, either fingers or an object such as a carrot or etc.
== Answer == Have your partner give you oral sex while they have one finger in your anus and one finger in your vagina. == Answer == Have your partner give you oral while putting one finger in your anus and the other in your vagina.
Get aroused. Whatever turns you on.
ride on them non stop
Lay back on there bed And rub there clit
in circular motions or side to side
it might take some girls a while
then they start to move
and rub really fast and get out of breathe
some turn red and some moan
For some women its very easy to orgasm. For some its a lot harder. Stimulation of the g spot and clitoris are key. From my experience some girls orgasm in minutes but the one im currently sexually active with it takes a lot to get her to orgasm. I must have full penetration and steady pace and must be constantly rubbing her clit to get her to climax. But to reach orgasm you have to stimulate those god spots :)
the stimulation of a penis inserting your vagina can make you reach and orgasm. or you can rub your clitoris in circles to help you get aroused and then you might reach an orgasm that way. One other way would be to fold a pillow in half and sit on it, moving back and forth.
Through their penis when they cant hold there semen any longer "They basically explode (ejaculate)"
I only know the male way to get a powerful orgasm and not the women. The mens way is is to do the start and stop way were you either masturbate or penetrate the women till you feel like your going to ejaculate then stop and wait for a while the proceed this process a couple of times then when you feel like the time is right, let it go and you will have a very powerful orgasm ( depending in how many times you started and stopped).
this may sound wierd but they way i have mine and i come in about a minute, is put ur rite hand facing down just below your vagina nd your left hand over it with your legs squeezed tight together and rub up and down
Ok. First turn the woman on well by finding her own personal hot spots. NowAfter this keep going with oral and manual stimulation. Proceed with SEX!!! And use your penis to make her orgasm multiple times while alternating from foreplay to sex and repeat process afer each orgasm.
Generally the very basics are:
For most women two areas easily produce the best orgasms, first and the easiest is the "Clitoral stimulation" (care must be taken not to overwork this organ, it can become sore and tender). Second, the "Vagina and famed G-spot", women can have single or multiple orgasms.
the Feeling U Have Befor You Burst Sperm Is A Male Orgasm
Really there is no way. Everyone is differant. There are many differant ways. For men it is simple, but for women it can be a bit harder.
1. Get the finger beside your thumb and place it on your clitors. That is just at the top of your vagina. Now move your finger slowly to the right or left. (Only ot your first knuckle) now move it faster and faster, back and forth. You should reach an orgasm in about 5 minutes.
hope this was help!
Just your hand works amazingly for girls maybe an electric toothbrush or a vibrator. For men your hand works
hold in everything for a long time and then let loose
hitting thou G-spot
man or woman?
Well, being manipulated of course... Its not that hard.
keep the object finger penis w.e u r using in while ur having a orgasm and ignore it. last alot longer
All guys are different...age doesn't change that, but for most of us we orgasm through rapid strokes during masturbation.

Remember that, in many respects, your maid's orgasm depends upon her emotions and feelings. It is possible to find advice to stimulate different spots of her body in internet... But don't forget about her personality! Try to create a romantic, sentimental atmosphere around her! Her eyes and her soul are more important for orgasm than your sexual behaviour!
Touch her EVERYWHERE.
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You touch, rub, feel, suck, lick, and use sex toys on her clitoris.
stimulate clitorus
The Best way for a guy to have an orgasm is pretty simple. Masturbation is the easiest, most convenient way to experience and orgasm.
== Answer == By stimulation of the clitoris, which causes vaginal contractions and a wonderful tingly feeling all over the body. But remember the orgasm is better when not the result of just stimulation of the clitoris, there are many spots on a woman's body that can cause arosal! Such as the neck, thighs, toes, ear lobes, lips, thighs etc. An orgasm is a very intense experience and some woman can experience orgams without the stimualtion of the clitoris at all - or it is too intense touching it directly. It is all dependent on the woman all one has to do is a little bit of reaserch once you find out where women have the most nerve endingds youve hit the jackpot. It ca also happen after intense g-spot stimulation and if the woman has strong muscles and knows how to position herself.

There a several ways a girl can reach orgasm. One is fisting or fingering. To do this method, 1)gently rub your vagina with salive or water. If you're a lesbian, you can have your partner lick your pussy. 2) make your hand flat or in a cup shape.3) insert your hand into pussy, twisting your hand back and forth until it's completely inside the vagina.4)find the g-spot.if you don't know where that is, go to .5)rub this area continuously, maybe even push it some. This should let you reach orgasm. or
1)fist yourself intil you can feel the end of your vaginal wall
2)grab it and pull onit(or you could rub it if you want a more subtle orgasm)
Generally with foreplay and/or stimulation, (assuming this is with a partner).
Orgasms for women
It happens at the peak of her arousal, a series of involuntary rhythmic rapid muscle contractions and spasms that start in the pelvic area and can spread to other parts of the body where muscles tighten, vaginal fluids enhance and your breathing quickens and intense tingling ensues. For most women two areas easily produce the best orgasms, first and the easiest is the "Clitoral stimulation" (care must be taken not to overwork this organ, it can become sore and tender). Second, the "Vagina and famed G-spot", women can have single or multiple orgasms.
Giving orgasms can be achieved in various ways, in most cases Foreplay is a must, gentle fingers and a educated tongue, massages, endearing words and/or dirty talk, for some porn movies, you must remember all women are different and want the things that please them, learn and know what they are, then use some or all of these to heighten her Libido to give the "Orgasm" she desires.
For Men:
First, Don't be in a hurry, go slow.
Men for the most part are logical by nature, most become aroused by site, sounds and fragrance, learn what arouses him in these areas and your well on your way for setting the mood.
Nakedness, teasing and kissing triggers his testosterone creating his sex drive, men's erogenous zones are generally in the groin and pelvic area, kissing, fondling, caressing and oral activities in these areas will heighten his passion and if you do more then one of these at a time it becomes "Ultra-pleasurable", but you need to know when to stop and what areas to concentrate on to avoid premature ejaculation, be creative, learn how to avoid the happy ending before it's proper time and place.
The female orgasm is not an object to be found. It is a release of tension and a feeling of pleasure that is experienced.

Answer
Stimulate the G-spot.
You don't orgasm because of what you see or think of. That gives you a turn-on. The reason you get orgasm is because of the feeling you get of having sex or masturbating.

== Answer == while having sex, try playing with your clitoris and just enjoy it. if you stress too much about having an orgasm, it wont happen. Answer == I'm a female so I just get relaxed in a bathtub with a shower head you can take off its stand, lay down and put your shower head on high or low (whatever you think would feel the best) and spray water into your vagina and find your g-spot. when you do just relax and let yourself go. LAY THERE, IF YOU GET UP TOO SOON YOU'LL FEEL A TIGHTNESS IN YOU STOMACH AND IT DOESN'T FEEL TOO GREAT. == Answer == There's always a first time. Make sure you have privacy. Relax and abandon your imagination to your wildest erotic fantasies. Start by fondling your breasts, then very gradually move down to your clitoris. Assuming that by now it's very moist, rub it - at first gently, then perhaps a shade more energetically. IF all goes well, there should be a build-up to wild excitement. It becomes almost unbearable; you feel you're crossing a threshold and you explode into release. Good luck!
== Answer == The clitoris is the most sensative areas and will bring her to climax. There is also a g spot located 3-4 inches in side her, apply pressure toward her stomach, while inside her. You sitting up with her on top helps, so does putting a couple of pillows underneath her while your on top. Hope this helps. If women would talk to us we would'nt have to ask!!
Yes
Yes.
A girl came make herself have an orgasm by touching their pussy or thinking about sex really really hard and imagine that it is real.
For a girl, rub the clitoris. when you feel that feeling, rub it harder, faster till you feel that your getting to your climax. Once you know you got it, use two or more fingers and put it in your vagina and go deeper till you feel.

I hump a really big pillow while watching porn. It works!
For a girl, rub the clitoris. when you feel that feeling, rub it harder, faster till you feel that your getting to your climax. Once you know you got it, use two or more fingers and put it in your vagina and go deeper till you feel.

I hump a really big pillow while watching porn. It works!
Orgasm is the result of masturbating. When you masturbate, you constantly rub your pubes (girls=vagina boys=penis) and think of (sexual) things that make your pubes "vibrate" or move. When you do it for an amount of time (depends on each person) you have orgasm when your pubes move uncontrollably and you have quenched the desire for sex for your body.
A: that is true. but when a guy has an erection into the vag. then things get spicy and guys tend to eat 'em up! :)

Not everything works for every person, so try different things until you figure out what works for you. If you have never had one before it may be difficult to figure out what you are looking for. Generally, the muscles in the abdomen and legs will tense or twitch. You may feel like you need to pee or you may sweat a lot. If you are having a man do it for you, it is good to give direction until he does something that feels good to you. Many women enjoy receiving oral. If you can find a man who is open to giving it, it's definitely something you need to experience. ;]
Masturbate or have sex.
Girls get orgasms by touching themselves in there clot and vagina hit your spot and it is brill. I have only orgy once but it was nice. Well once as far as i am aware
If theY are Romanian
You 1) stick your tongue on her clit and 2) bang her till she screams! Then you have acomplished your goal :)
Either you have sex or fool around, or finger her. or anything around those lines
Every female is different. One thing they seem to have in common, is that they need both mental and physical stimulation to even be turned on. One word I cant stress enough is FOREPLAY . Touching, kissing, licking etc. Take your time. Also, most females cant reach orgasm through insertion alone. They need clitoral stimulation whether its by a partner or themselves. They also need to be comfortable, which is the whole mental thing. As you get to know each other, your chances of her achieving orgasm will increase. Good Luck!

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Woman Orgasms
Here Are 3 Other Secrets About Woman Orgasms
Women You Might Not Know...
Your Women Will Never Tell You If You Are Bad In Bed!
Here's another honest confession - while we'll complain for hours to our GirlFriendss about how clumsy and clueless you are in the bedroom... we will never, ever, EVER tell you!
Why? Well we know guys have fragile egos, so we'll usually rather put up with "average" sex than tell you and risk hurting your feelings. After all, we can always just fake like we are enjoying it.
This can create another problem though... you see... you probably already know that girls "fake it" all the time.
The problem this causes is that since a girl won't ever tell a guy he sucks in bed, but she WILL fake an orgasm - and very convincingly! A lot guys never know that they are doing anything wrong.
Some guys are even fooled into thinking that they are "good"!
When in reality... the woman is lying there wishing she was with someone who really knew how to make her cum ... so she wouldn't have to fake it.
So the moral of the story is that many guys who are bad in bed don't know it! If you hear a guy bragging about how he rocked his girl's world in the bedroom... don't always believe him!
If You Give Your Woman Orgasms, She Will Never Leave You...
Unlike men, we women are NOT interested in having a variety of sexual partners.
So... when we find a guy who is GREAT in bed, we know we've found something RARE.
We'll never even look at another man.
Guys who have these skills can basically do WHATEVER THEY WANT and a girl will stick with them.
Have you ever heard about a girl who is with a total jerk... but she just won't break up with him?
It's almost ALWAYS because he's great in bed, no lie.
It's the only surefire way to CHEAT-PROOF your relationship, and keep a woman interested in you and only you for as long as you desire.
When You Give Your Woman Orgasms, She Becomes Sexually Addicted To You!
Yes, you read that right! Here's why:
We LOVE sex. If you need proof of this, think about how loudly we scream when we're getting off! Those aren't screams of pain you know =)
But... 99% of men are TERRIBLE in bed
Because of this, it is very RARE that we get to have great sex
So when we do find a man who can give it to us... WE WANT TO DO HIM ALL THE TIME!
I'm sure you've heard of couples who have sex 3 or more times a day. Well in most cases... it's ladies who are initiating it!
It's because They love it... and when we are lucky enough to find the rare man who knows how to give those amazing orgasms they crave...
Relax and stimulate your clitoris or penis and fantasize. (Women often begin by gently stimulating their breasts).
Focus on your fantasies and keep them alive, as having an orgasm is NOT a purely physical matter.
Arousal and excitement should build up to the point where they involve growing tension which for a second or so becomes almost unbearable.
It peaks, you seem to go over over a threshold and the tension explodes into intensely pleasurable release.
There is often something ecstatic about a really powerful orgasm.
'Orgasm' is the term for the climax, 'crossing the threshold' and the release that follows. The basic elements of orgasm are the same for both sexes: arousal - almost unbearable 'tension' - climax - release.
Men usually ejaculate during release but with women this is much less common (and not necessary).


To have an orgasm (this is for women), use your middle finger on the hand you write with.
Move down from the belly-button, and when you feel the "bump", the long one right above your vagina, gently circle it.
For most it takes around 5-10 minutes to climax or orgasm.


For a man, to reach an orgasm yourself, you hold your erect penis like a football. You move your hand up and down grasping your penis.
You foreskin should move.
Fantasize while you are doing this and it will happen faster.
When you start feeling the sensation, do it faster, you will soon reach an orgasm state and sperm will then come out.
Don't do these when you need to have a pee, it takes longer if there is pee in you system.
Urinate before you start.
Also, occasionally, you may wet yourself with the tension. Have fun!

One way is to take your penis and your hands, and rub your penis with both hands from the sides of your penis. (left and right sides).
In a man's case you have to grip the penis and rub or masturbate.