Reshmi Known as one of the top new faces in Bangalore,Reshmi is a successful escort on a boundless ascent. Entrancingly beautiful, charismatic and chic,Reshmi has an exceptionally warm personality and soothing nature. With her physical appeal, sophisticated style and grace Reshmi invites you to delve into the true pleasures of life…
There is huge double standard when discussing whether me being inside the escort Business is free choice. I will take their word that it is empowering, and only view the small moment where the woman appears happy, and well she is smiling. But, we do not take the word of the battered woman or lady being raped by her boyfriend – that she is happy, is still in love with him and so is it ok then. But I decide being inside the escort Business must be freely chosen. There is a massive betrayal of all women and girls inside and outside the escort Business – and it makes me bloody angry.”
My Confessions and diagnosis is not an attempt to seek approval or sympathy for the decisions I have made along the way, nor is it a means to glamorize or promote escort or my concern in any way. Rather, it is to be a true account of my experiences and the new challenges I or we escorts at Bangalore Girl Friend Experience now find our self facing. I am sure that some of the people who read our official site Bangalore Girl Friend Experience will be able to identify with my experiences. For those of you who can't, I am hoping to create insight into the world of escorts and how it can become a whole way of life rather than just a job. For the purpose of my own anonymity and the privacy of others, the names of the people have been changed, and of coarse you do not expect my real name to be Reshmi
You can buy me,
You can hire my love!
A price tag you'll find.
My smile for you,
Never reaches my eyes.
Your touch leaves no imprint,
Whether cruel or kind.
You can access my body,
But never reach my mind.
You may be renting my mouth,
Doesn't earn you my kiss.
You hear my farewell,
My only gift,
You are simply dismissed.
Of coarse till you pay next.
Meeting place: Any where in Bangalore
What you want me to wear: I prefer a jean and a Top.
What you want me to do: Girl Friend for the day
I am 29 now and have been working as an independent high class escort since I was 22 with Bangalore Girl Friend Experience. I started working in Bangalore Girl Friend Experience because at the time I had my boy friend with whom I was having sex with hours and hours for 4 times a week with him. Hours each time. He was great in bed but it made me think that I really enjoy it and made me think of why I am giving it away for free when I can make a lot of money for just doing what I am already doing.
Lol that guy turned out to be my bf for the next 3 yrs I was working and I had to keep it a secret which was very hard at times. I first started with Bangalore Girl Friend Experience as an independent high class escort.
I don’t know much else to say except that non-prostitutes do not understand our world. they almost have this extremely bad view on escorting, I had worked with non-escort friends who I have talked with all of them have the view of escorts need to be saved view and that they hate what they do and are forcing themselves to be in that industry because they don’t have an education etc but this is further than the truth. I have met so many talented and smart women. A lot are studying or have
semi-good normal jobs. E.g. one working friend of mine works in a call Center in White fields and gets paid INR 25,000/ per month. If she works full time however she is only working part time and part time working as an escort in my concern Bangalore Girl Friend Experience. I am as for myself a self confessed nerd. loll went to college in my native Mysore to do economics. I did it for 1 year and dropped out. Lol I hate the view that prostitutes need to be saved from their life because I enjoy
what I do. Most of my clients/regulars want a girlfriend experience so they would book me for hours and it’s not all about sex. Most of that time is talking, watching TV, having a drink in Brigade Road and cuddling and just lying next to each other cuddling in bed. Some even pay me to sleep with them and I mean literally sleep. Lol
I am getting paid for something I enjoy and I am very good at what I do and I get paid a lot for it. Hey I might be having a 3 hour nap with someone but not many people can wake up from a 3 hour nap and say ive made INR 15,000 from that nap. LOL
I wanted to share my story and how and why I joined this concern 7 years back because I am hoping to meet other escorts from Bangalore city. I know many escorts in Bangalore as I work in the # 1 escorting concern in Bangalore city. I am looking to find some contacts with other working escort girls in Bangalore to share experiences with and to just chat and compare experiences and be friends so if anyone wants to ,please just send me a message at firstname.lastname@example.org
Another dangerous myth promoted by the privileged sex workers is that escorting is not the buying and selling of bodies for sexual wants – but just a sexual service where the body is separated from the mind.
Well, of course the mind is cut off – but not from pleasure or to make it into an ordinary job – the mind is cut off because the violence and degradation of escorts is so normal and made standard, that detachment is the only way to survive with a small degree of sanity.
These clients do not see or care that the escort is a full human – all they want is the body parts that they can masturbate into.God, most of these men would not notice or give a shit if the escorts were dead or alive, as long they get their money worth.
I say that most women who are lucky enough to be in this escort trade, often need their pride and self-respect as much as they need oxygen. To lay bare too much emotion to please others, is a destruction of that pride.
Know the reality of the Escort business – is to survive being inside that hell, the escort woman or girl has to learn to have no emotions, or to play the emotions that are demanded from her.
To be a good escort, good at massage, good phone-order bride and so many other sex trade roles – you must learn the coded emotions that mean you may survive.
The major emotions to know and learn are to smile, the calming emotions to please men, the ignorance of disgust, the emotions of the willing hostess-slave.
Surviving the escort trade is just luck, but a major way to have the chance to survive is to murder all emotions – and play the role of the perfect actress.
That is something that is impossible for the majority of exited women to speak about – hell, it nearly impossible for most to know in their own minds and hearts.
It is hard to express how to survive you did the lowest, the things that sickened every cell of your body – you did what clients demanded.
How can words or writing truly express that desperate need to survive that nearly kills all that was human in you.
All you do is find some peace for what you had to be – and know you did the most amazing act possible – you exited that hell.
Is it any wonder that exited women appear tough and unemotional?
For me, they are all the greatest heroes I know of. I don’t need to see any emotions to believe that.
I guess if I wasn't an independent high class escort in here at my concern Bangalore Girl Friend Experience, I’d be the **** most guys dream about. I just enjoy sex and all the power that it gives us women. Most men will do or give us almost anything to get between our legs. I could never let my Clients know how bad I need it or the pricewould drop.
Unfortunately, about a month ago my dad found out what I was doing here in Bangalore. I'm not sure who told him, I think my sister might have let it slip out. He hated me being an Escort anyway and this just made it worse, he was very angry and called me all sorts of nasty names. So I stopped doing it for a while but now I've decided that I'm not going to take orders from my dad any more, I'm not his little girl and I'm determined to do what I want, he can take it or leave it! Anyway, I know that
when he gets angry with me he always comes round in the end, it was the same when I became an escort. And it's hard to resist when they tempt me with money. Anyway, if I didn’t do it for them they would easily find another escort girl. I'm sure some people will be shocked just like my dad but I think an escort should do what their clients want, don't you? After all they pay good money and I like to make sure they enjoy the experience. Love to know what you think, do you approve of what I do,
or perhaps you think I'm just too dirty?
I am an independent high class escort in Bangalore. I have been since I was 22 I got caught in this lifestyle, for the obvious reason...Quick money. There are days I wake up and want to kill myself and be done with this life. I can't keep a stable job because I love Quick money and that's been my biggest downfall. I have been raped and I couldn't even tell because then I would have to tell on myself. I have been treated like a sex object, rather than a person for too long, I can't take it, but when I think of the Quick money I am back on the bandwagon. This lifestyle has ruined my relationship with my bf,my family, and friends. Sometimes I don’t feel like myself when I do it, I feel more like a robot going through the motion. I don’t do drugs, or alcohol,but yet I want to live this life as an independent high class escort in Bangalore and I don’t understand myself. I am an Escort, but no one knows. I lead a double life, and do what I have to get by.I work in the hope of a better future. People think I am spoilt and lucky, and so put me down. They think I have an easy life, but they don't know what I have to do to earnmy money.
I have to take care of myself, no one can ever know how. But as long as they don't know, they will never understand us.
I just don't have the money for my life style in Bangalore so I had been contemplating escorting! I have slowly been trying to adjust my mindset into the profession of escorting in Bangalore!!!.
Hi I am a working girl(escorting in my concern Bangalore Girl Friend Experience) I have been doing it for almost 7 year and I was just wondering if any other women out there feel like they find themselves painting all men with the same brush. I feel like I can’t trust any man in Bangalore city any more. I do enjoy my job and I am very good at it, but when I get back to reality and non work life I find myself wondering will I find a guy that I can trust?... if I could do it. I am a 29 year's old woman but when I oll myself up I don't look half bad. I enjoy giving blow jobs, hand jobs. I figure I
do everything and I am up front about it I won't have to worry about the angry Clients
that think they've been duped. I figure why not get paid to do something I do like?
Because sex is pleasurable, it isn't surprising that there are people who try to make money with it. People who sell themselves to other people for sex are called escorts.
Other terms used for these people are harlot,whore, call girl, courtesan and prostitutes. While most escorts are selling sex for money, some escorts use sex to gain favors.
Clients at Bangalore Girl Friend Experience may preserve discretion, and our escort’s lips may keep knowledge. For the lips of an escort drip honey, and her mouth is smoother than oil; but in the end she is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword. Her feet go down to death, her steps lay hold of hell. Lest you ponder her path of life as an escort and her life - her ways are unstable; you still do
not know them.
A woman who is selling herself for sexual pleasures looks good to a man . After all, it would be hard to attract clients if she were not attractive. However, no matter how pretty she is on the outside, she is still full of sin within. Her good looks and pretty words will destroy a man's soul. Devil is the master of deception, dressing up evil things in attractive packages.
An escort will ruin a man's honor. How many husbands have been brought low when his wife found out that he had frequented the services of an escort? Even a one night stand could ruin your reputation for life if your family found out.
We escorts will meet husbands, you'll live on and men who'll live on you, and those are the only men you'll meet.... and we escorts will always be every man's wife-in-law, and no man's wife.
Visiting an escort is also costly, an escort like me better knows that once you start to lust after my body, you will pay just about any price to have me in bed again.
Instead of waiting until it is too late and wishing you never had visited an escort, you
would be much better off never going to one. An Escort only brings short-lived pleasure, but she will leave you with an eternity of pain. Don't continually think about seeing an escort ,this will be ultimately being an opening to tempt you into sin. If you frequently think about sinning, it becomes easier to imagine yourself committing the sin. One day you will give in and do it.
To keep you from the evil woman, from the flattering tongue of a seductress. Do not lust after her beauty in your heart, nor let her allure you with her eyelids. For by means of an escort a man is reduced to a crust of bread; and an adulteress will prey upon his precious family life.
People do not despise a thief if he steals to satisfy himself when he is starving. Yet when he is found, he must restore sevenfold; he may have to give up all the substance of his house. Whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks understanding; Husbands who does so destroys his own soul, Wounds and dishonor he will get, and his reproach will not be wiped away. For jealousy is a Wife's fury; therefore she will not spare in the day of vengeance. She will not accept any recommendation, nor will she be compromised though you may give her as many gifts.
The adulteress or an escort plays with your emotions - wearing down your defenses.She makes herself attractive and whispers sweet things to you. An escort will do anything she can to arouse the desire for sex within you - inflaming that desire into a passionate lust for her body.
Don't give in to her temptations! The best defense against the lure of an escort is a strong, solid life dedication to your family life.
An escort does not necessarily hang out a sign saying "Sex for Sale"; nor does she always wait for some man to come and offer her money to spend the night with her.The escorts will be on the street looking for an easy target. A young man, inexperienced with the ways of the world and easily inflamed with the desire for sex is a prime target. Most escorts will take a bold approach and make blatant sexual passes at you. They will move up close, making sure you see areas of flesh that should be covered. They will press against you, touch you in provocative ways, and tease you with words - anything to arouse your desire for sex. Escorts understand that a man battling his own desires will not think clearly.
Nowhere is a woman treated according to the merit of her work, but rather as a sex. It is therefore almost inevitable that she should pay for her right to exist, to keep a position in whatever line, with sex favors. Thus it is merely a question of degree whether she sells herself to one man, in or out of marriage, or too many men!... the economic and social inferiority of woman is responsible for prostitution.
Love is a taste for escorting. In fact, there is no noble pleasure that cannot be reduced to escorting.
There will be all sorts of reasons given to convince the hesitant why joining her in bed for just a little while is all right.
Escorts are appealing to your pride. She wants you to think that she believes you to be someone special. However, she gives the same line to every man she meets.
"It will be fun."
That may be true for the moment, but a short night of pleasure is not worth the potential humiliation, pain and agony that you could face later.
"No one will know."
We very much doubt that you could truly keep it a secret. Even if you manage to keep it a secret the first time, what about the second, third, and fourth time? What do I mean by second time? Once a person believes they have gotten away with a sin, it is very easy to convince themselves that they could do it one more time with no harm. After the second time it will be easy to try it just one more time. Soon, theperson can't stop. They don't want to stop.
Therefore, with many different enticements, the escorts will lead her victim to bed.His passions will be so inflamed that he will not even realize, nor care that he has been seduced until the next day when it is too late.
There is a special allurement to breaking a law. Escorts are exciting because of the danger involved. It is similar to knowing a secret that no one else knows. It makes you feel as if you are better than other people. What it is doing is feeding your pride. Giving in to an escorts’ temptation is like entering a deep, narrow pit. The pit is easy to fall into, but very hard to work your way back out. It is easy to follow the escorts’
lead. It is not hard to have sex with her in bed. Most men would find it very pleasurable. I ‘am sure you could find many excuses to visit her repeatedly and even justify the expense to yourself. Some people do wake up to reality and manage to work themselves out of the pit, but it is a long, hard struggle. In the end, and for your own sweet family sake, don't go near the pit!
Remember that having sex outside of marriage, whether it is with professional escorts or not, is not just a sin against your family; it is a sin against your own body.
There is a specific purpose for sex and that purpose is fulfilled in marriage.
When a married man is having sex with an escorts, to the moralist prostitution does not consist so much in the fact that the woman sells her body, but rather that he sells it out of wedlock.
What is marriage but prostitution to one man instead of many?
Marriage is for woman the commonest mode of livelihood, and the total amount of undesired sex endured by Married women is probably greater in marriage than in escorting.
Prostitutes are accused even by feminists of selling their bodies; but escorts don't sell their bodies, they rent their bodies. Housewives sell their bodies when they get married.
There are 10,000 escorts in Bangalore alone and what are they, if not bloody sacrifices on the altar of monogamy?
Escorts exist today because women are objectified sexually, and because it is considered more permissible for men than for women to have purely sexual experiences.
If nobody wants to sell sex, it is a crime to force anyone to do so. But when men or women do want to sell their bodies, they should have that full right without encountering punishment or discrimination. If the client behaves decently, the relationship between the sex buyer and the sex seller must be considered a purely private transaction.
The escort is not, as feminists claim, the victim of men, but rather their conqueror, an outlaw, who controls the sexual channels between nature and culture. A society's response to prostitution goes to the core of how it chooses between the rights of some persons and the protection of others.
Now here is a woman treated according to the merit of her work, but rather as a sex.
It is therefore almost inevitable that she should pay for her right to exist, to keep a position in whatever line, with sex favors. Thus it is merely a question of degree whether she sells herself to one man, in or out of marriage, or too many men!... The economic and social inferiority of woman is responsible for prostitution.
"Actually, if my business was legitimate in India, I would deduct a substantial percentage for depreciation for my body."
Tobacco kills 52,000 people a year in India from lung cancer, and there's no telling how many lives have been ruined through drinking. But to my knowledge, no one has ever died of a blow job.